With heavy hearts...

My Aunt Jakki,holding her Grandson.

*Update*

I was able to speek with my cousin Tiffany(17),my Aunt's youngest daughter.Please be praying for her,as well as her two older brothers Richard (24) and Marc (20).My Aunts name has been given to the press now.Her name was Jacquline Allen,she was 44.We ask that you lift up her husband,my Uncle Craig too,as this has been devistating to all involved.As well as the other families who lost loved ones in this tragic accident.Thank you for your prayers.

Dear Friends and Family,
I (Bethany) ask you all for prayers today.This afternoon I recieved a call that no one wants to recive. My Aunt was in a tragic accident,and was killed yesterday.Typing this seems so unreal. Many of you may have read a story about a speed boat hitting a tug boat.It made national news.My Aunt was one of the people on the boat who lost her life.Please be praying for my Uncle,and her three children.She was a dearly loved mom,grandma and aunt.I have chosen to not share her name at this time,because not all of the extended family has been notified.Thank you for your prayers and understanding.

HI From E!

The other day I was trying to get video of Riley walking,and well,he was not interested in that.But,Elliott wanted to be on the camera.So,I decided to talk to him.Last week,he chipped his tooth,and got to take an early morning visit to the dentist. Thankfully,there was no permanent damage,and the tooth will be fine,the dentist just filed it down.And Elliott tolerated that okay,considering his age,and sensory issues. Here is his video clip the next morning,and if Mrs.Heather,or Mrs.Kathy are watching,at the end he DOES day YOUR names! ;)

Home Alone...

The kids are at Grandma and Pawpaw's house tonight.J and C went to Awana,while the little boys had male bonding time with Pawpaw. Adam is home,and rather bored since he can't really do anything,and the power at the house was out yesterday,so having four children at their house,under five,should liven the place up a little.(haha)Or a lot. I don't mind having the kids gone one night,I'm amazed at all the things I get done.But,at the same time,their empty beds and no little pitter patters in the morning make me so thankful it's just one day. I love being at home with them,truly,and though many people may think having so many little ones,I would be begging for a break.But not really,being home is what I am called to do, serving,loving,tending,caring,training,cuddling,encouraging,disciplining,that is where I find true joy. Certainly I have days where I cry out to the Lord for peace,patience,persevearance,and rest.And I tell you,he answers my crys,and helps me to find joy through my day.He alone gives me the strength I need,truly I could not do it without my personal relationship with my Lord and Savior.Tonight as I write,I miss my little ones,but,am seazing the moment,and have laundry washing,a clean kitchen,and a few moments to jot down my thoughts between loads.;) Don't get me wrong,I have learned that having four children under five means I will never be caught up on laundry,my house will never be perfectly kept,There may be days in a row where I don't get a shower,Almost all of my clothing will have some kind of stain,There will always be cheerios under the highchair,On most days my wardrobe will consist of sweatpants and a t-shirt,and I probably won't be able to go to the bathroom by myself for atleast another two years,but that's okay,because I have learned a huge life lesson through being a mommy...

life is not about me

I realize this totally goes against current culture. True joy and fullfillment comes when one pours them self out in service,and God has placed me in my family to serve them.Think I am crazy?yes? I do not consider myself a wellspring of knowledge on this subject,for I myself am learning daily about what it truly means to be a mother,and child of the King.I recently finished a book that I highly reccomend, "Passionate Housewives Desperate for God." By Jennie Chancey and Stacey McDonald.Read it,and then come back and tell me your thoughts!

I have to be honest with you,it's a daily struggle for me to not "dwell on the "me" thoughts".The woe is me mentallity is difficult to combat,only dwelling upon scripture is how I keep my focus off of the worldy desires of my flesh and upon the desires of God's heart.This verse is one that encourages me daily,and helps me keep my eyes on My Lord,and serving my family.

Deuteronomy 6:5-9
5 “You shall love the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might. 6 “These words, which I am commanding you today, shall be on your heart. 7 “You shall teach them diligently to your sons and shall talk of them when you sit in your house and when you walk by the way and when you lie down and when you rise up. 8 “You shall bind them as a sign on your hand and they shall be as frontals on your forehead. 9 “You shall write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates.

Adam

Pray for Adam please! Thursday he went to Indy to a regular check up appointment,and to talk about scheduling the big surgery to remove all the plates in his right hand and left finger.But plans quickly changed when they took x-rays and found infection in the bone of his left hand.He had surgery and they cleaned the wound,and removed the infected bone.Please pray the infection has all been removed,that it heals well,and that Adam would have peace and patience as this moves his surgery back for his right hand.Thanks friends!

"E" and "NO WAY"...

I just had to share this.As most of you know our third born Elliott has some developmental delays. He is doing so well,and has come a long way! His verbal skills are so much better,in fact,he is now putting together his own sentences not just repeating what everyone else says. Well,his new favorite thing to say is .....
"NO WAY!"

Everything is

"NO WAY!"

Clara the other day showed him her bitty baby and said "She came from Chicago" and Elliott said "NO WAY!", we all got a good laugh out of that.

Then I asked him to help clean up the basement,and he sat on the stairs,crossed his arms and said

"No Way,I too wittle (little)".

I have to admit I could not control my laughter.I did tell him through the laughter that we do not say no to mommy,and then he said "awright",and began cleaning up.It's not as though he was trying to be naughty,more like he just thinks it's cool to say "NO WAY!".

Now you should all know what I mean when I say "sometimes Elliott's "cuteness" just consumes me!!!!!".

His Therapy is going great,and he is always asking, "mmmm heaher oming daday?" (Mrs.Heather Coming today?) or "mmm Zata oming daday?" (Mrs.Kathy Bazata coming today).He likes saying Mrs.Bazata,as opposed to her first name Kathy,I think, he thinks Bazata is a cool name.So,if you two are reading,let it be known,Elliott asks for you E.V.E.R.Y.D.A.Y.! ;)

Currently he is sitting in the play room playing with his construction toys.That alone is a huge milestone,as he always needed mommy to encourage pretend play,or one of his bigger siblings.We are so thankful for our happy,sweet,funny,special needs Elliott. Really,don't we all have special needs? He just gets to claim more than the rest of us :).

Pictures and Update...

Hello All!
We had new pictures taken last week and thought we would share them with all of you.Riley is almost walking now,so that meant four little ones who can run away!Needless to say family pictures are always exciting! Hope you all like the new layout too,it was time for a change!

He Has Made Me Glad...

I love this song.Many times during long nights sleepless nights,and dark stressful days God had brought this song to my heart. I love to hear my children skipping through the house humming this song.How I want this to be our family theme song...HE HAS MADE US GLAD! May God bless you with these lyrics,I encourage you to post them around the house,great reminder.Oh,and here's the link to the music video...so encouraging! He is your very present help in times of need,he loves you,he will give you the strength,and he is your shield!Be blessed dear friends!
Verse 1
I will bless the Lord forever
I will trust Him at all times
He has delivered me from all fear
He has set my feet upon a rock
I will not be moved
And I'll say of the Lord

Chorus
You are my shield
My strength
My portion
Deliverer
My shelter
Strong tower
My very present help in time of need

Verse 2
Whom have I in heaven but You
There's none I desire besides You
You have made me glad
And I'll say of the Lord